

She cut the only career cord she'd ever known and spontaneously changed gears, and she hasn't looked back since, contributing to several online publications, such as BabyGaga, Hot Moms Club, and the Organic Daily Post. But her true love-the world of mothers and babies-was lying in wait. Enjoy! 30 I Don’t Care, Babeĭanielle Lasher is a writer, mother, and women's health advocate living in Western Maryland-just outside of Washington DC-with her fiance, their four kids and two dogs.Īfter earning her bachelor's degree in Psychology at Penn State, Danielle made good use of her writing talent and went on to work as a copywriter, providing marketing content on healthcare and drug research to facilities around the globe. Since we don’t have that, there is this lovely list instead. This could clear up or start a lot of fights, but it would definitely eliminate a ton of second-guessing and wasting time wondering what is wrong with him. That way we could look up all their little phrases and find out what they are really trying to say. What men should come with is a translation booklet or maybe a pamphlet. Men regularly say that women should come with an instruction manual. This could be because they aren’t even aware that they are doing it. We women often get a bad rap for that, but the truth is, guys do it too and more frequently than they will ever admit. On top of that, when they do decide to talk to us, they do it very minimally and infrequently while employing deflective techniques such as saying one thing when they really mean something completely different. They hide their feelings deep under a thick shell and they don’t like prying back that shell to see what their feelings are up to. “Let’s normalize having these f-ing lines in songs, the same way somebody might talk about f-ing a girl or f-ing a guy.Everyone knows that communication between men and women is a very tricky thing -further complicated by the fact that as a general rule, men are not that great at communicating. “I was like, ‘It’s about time I say something out of pocket in a song,'” he said, chuckling.

The line “shoot a child in yo’ mouth while I’m ridin’,” he said, was intended to be jarring, while also helping break a stigma around lyrics focused on queer lust.

“The way everything is shot, the way the dialogue goes on, the way the background sounds are used, everything about it is so artsy.”Īs for some of the song’s more openly sexual lyrics, the rapper says that was fully intentional.

“That was one of the first gay films that I had watched, and I thought the theme was so dope of calling somebody by your own name,” he said. When it comes to the song’s title, Lil Nas X fully acknowledges that he was deeply influenced by the 2017 film of the same name and wanted to create an anthem where he fully embraced his sexuality. “I can’t pretend I don’t see you doing this sh–, and I can’t pretend I don’t notice these things,” he said about his friend’s sexuality. The opening lines of the song, he said, track the literal interaction he had with the guy, from being called up, his wish to “catch you throwing smiles in my face,” and seeing his friend partying, doing drugs and drinking his time in quarantine away.
